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This is going to be a post about politics.

Well, sort of. I’d been thinking about writing this for awhile, but reading this blog post yesterday and having a lengthy conversation with my friend Tessa Gratton really solidified my desire. The blog post was about whether or not readers want/ care to hear about authors’ politics. The conversation with Tessa was about politics and what really changes people’s minds. This post I’m writing now isn’t really about either of those things. But they were the catalyst for it.

I used to love politics. It was back when I was a kid, when the only correct politics, to my way of thinking, were the ones my parents held. So politics wasn’t so much a thought process as a sporting event. Throw some money behind the home team and hope they cross the finish first! Whoo! Sit back and wait 2-4 years for the next match. But now that I have reached puberty and formed my own political philosophies, politics holds absolutely no joy. In particular, I despise the election season. I’m not sure if I’ve changed or if politics have. Or if I can just blame Facebook. But somewhere along the way, I’ve become convinced that the vast majority of political dialogue is unproductive at best and destructive at worst.

I’m perfectly aware that for the next several months, the internet will be consumed by divisive, partisan commentary, name-calling, and lots and lots and lots of generalizations.

I don’t want to post about my politics on my blog. What I’d like to post about, though, is how we look at politics. I’d like to offer a plea to the internet. I wish that Americans would view the election season not as a win/lose scenario, but rather, as an opportunity to become educated about all of the problems and issues facing our country at the moment. I wish that instead of immediately identifying ourselves as an automatic supporter of one party or another, we’ll step outside the boxes and look at all possible solutions. I wish we’d look at ways to not make half of the country miserable for the next four years, depending on who wins the election. Does every election have to feel like either victory or failure? Does everything have to be either/ or?

I would be quite happy if, going forward, the following phrases never appeared in political discussions: bleeding heart, Bible-thumping, fascists, tree-huggers.

I would be quite happy if people stopped thinking that politics gives you permission to hate someone.

I would be quite happy if politics became less of a club and more of a tool.

I would be quite happy if politics became less about proving to the world who you are and more about actually changing the world for the better.

I have friends on both sides of the political divide (actually, I prefer to think about it as all over the political spectrum, as things have never been and will never be black and white/ this party or that party), and I don’t have a problem with it. Because my friends’ political beliefs are the results of passion and thoughtfulness, not hatred, fear, stereotyping, or generalizations.

So this is not a post about politics, really. It’s about being civil. It’s about making decisions based upon facts, not fear. It’s about making the election season a country-changing experience, not just good late-night TV.

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    Laura R
    August 9, 2012 at 9:59 am

    “I would be quite happy if politics became less of a club and more of a tool.”
    I don’t think anyone could have said that better. I used to be the same way. I loved watching the political debates with my parents & eagerly awaited discussions about issues. That is until I actually got to vote. I don’t know what changed, but something did. Now I just try to avoid the confrontation & backbiting. Thanks for sharing!

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    Elizabeth
    August 9, 2012 at 9:59 am

    Thanks for posting this. I’ve been so frustrated with the bitterness on both sides. I use to love politics as well. I love the history of the system and learning about how it works. But I’ve stopped following it because it’s just so filled with hatred. A very fond memory is of the mock election we had in jr. high. Bush vs. Dukakis. Telling my age :) Can I suggest adding “tea-baggers” to the ban list? It’s a really inappropriate term and it’s become widely used. I’ve actually unfriended people on facebook because of the hateful comments.

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    Melissa
    August 9, 2012 at 10:00 am

    Thank you for posting this, Maggie! I completely agree that in my relatively short lifespan, I feel like politics – and especially election season – has changed for the worst. Everything recently has been about how much dirt can we dig up about said person or how can we make said person look bad, as opposed to trying to legitimately focus on the issues at hand. I can only hope this tide changes for the better soon…

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    Gwyneth
    August 9, 2012 at 10:01 am

    I agree with all of that Maggie, politics bores me to no end. But the being civil part I highly agree with, I don’t follow politics much, but the country really needs to be helped and I think we could do that if we just forgot our political parties and looked at who could really help the country, like you said.

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    Cindy
    August 9, 2012 at 10:11 am

    Ah, Maggie. Can you turn this into an op-ed piece for a newspaper or magazine? You’ve expressed thoughts shared by so many. The bitterness and the shouting only alienate people, and I cannot imagine the fortitude of those who actually run for office.

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    Rebecca
    August 9, 2012 at 10:18 am

    Thanks for such a though-provoking post. I especially agree with the not letting politics give us an excuse to hate. Just because someone belongs to the opposite party, doesn’t mean they’re the embodiment of evil. The average person hasn’t meant Romney or Obama, so “hating” either one of them seems really extreme. And I echo what Cindy said: you need to get this out there.

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    Kat
    August 9, 2012 at 10:29 am

    It’s a pity that politics is reduced to soundbites and quasi-memes, especially in the age of social media, where complex ideas are often flattened to the point of lacking nuance and complexity. All sides are definitely guilty of this, and of vitriol and useless attacks. I admit, I am a real social justice type person and feel passionately about what’s important to me, but the way we talk about politics in the U.S. in general is so unproductive and even hateful. There’s just a lack of respect and empathy, and I feel like those qualities (as well as compassion) are really the key ingredients if you want to change anything. On the other hand, where I live, I notice there is a lot more bridge-building between “sides” on some issues, especially around the growing poverty crisis, and even the global situation around AIDS has prompted some working together as well — so there are signs of hope. It’s just hard to hear them around the din of election season and “winning and losing.”

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    sqt
    August 9, 2012 at 10:44 am

    Thanks for this. I have very strong political beliefs but never talk about them outside my front door because it’s such a touchy subject. If I need a political discussion I’ll go to a political website, but I really prefer not to see it on Facebook. That’s the worst.

    Civility seems so hard to come by this time in the electoral season and no diatribe is going to change my vote (nor am I going to change anyone’s mind with one of mine) so it seems best to keep my opinions to myself and smile and nod whenever anyone offers theirs.

  9. Tessa Gratton
    August 9, 2012 at 10:45 am

    I’d be happy if all these things were possible, too. But sometimes, the only way to change the world for the better IS to prove to the world who you are. That you’re a person, not a slave. That you’re a woman, but with just as much smarts and value as a man. That you love somebody of the same sex/gender identity, but aren’t immoral. That you’re Muslim, but not a terrorist. Many of the greatest social changes have come from people who have to stop being nice, who have to be divisive.

    Fighting for equality, education, health care, religious freedom, war, anti-war, the environment, and jobs is passionate, hard, exhausting thing to do whatever you are fighting FOR.

    The election season isn’t about good TV or media pundits hashing it out or hating the “other side” for me. I WISH IT WAS. But its about being able to walk safely down the street with my partner’s hand in mine, or getting treated for a sudden injury without going into debt, or not seeing another gay kid murdered for being gay, or my friend not being beaten up because she doesn’t look like a legal citizen.

    It would be nice if I could be nice. It would be relaxing and a relief. But people are dying every day in our country, not because of a few loud bad people, but because of OUR LAWS, and that’s not something I can be civil about.

  10. Hannah Saskia
    August 9, 2012 at 10:56 am

    Very well said! I like the points you made, and I found it very interesting!

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    stacy
    August 9, 2012 at 2:47 pm

    Maggie, this is me. I’m a nice person, and have seem my share of bullying tactics that I do not want anyone to ever go through what I endured – even if their beliefs/ideals are different than mine. It’s about respect. I agree with Tessa too. Sometimes we have to be loud to be heard.

    One of the greatest activist that ushered in change was Martin Luther King Jr. His approach is a great blending of respectful tenacity – a true voice of reason.

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    Sherie
    August 9, 2012 at 10:31 pm

    I would have to agree with alot of what is being said here. My politics are more in line with Tessa’s, but I do believe in being respectful of others’ opinions. In my profession, I also need to remain neutral with respect to my patient’s religious or political beliefs. It helps no one to alienate them with my political or religious values. I am not there to change their minds, but to help them. Hate is not the answer. That being said, I would like to add that I think it would really help everyone to decrease the influence of money in politics. Sometimes it feels as if the money is just going toward buying more negative and divisive media than toward actually making any real difference. Personally, I feel guilty not contributing, because I can and others may not be able to, but really I would much prefer my money going toward actually helping people who need it.

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    Miranda
    August 9, 2012 at 11:53 pm

    I have to say, I truly believe that both you, Maggie, and Tessa have very valid points. And I think that the average American feels the same way you both do. We want to be civil, but we want to be heard.

    I would be quite happy if real Americans could voice their opinions without the interplay and agendas of the media. I would love more reporting and less commentary on the news. A simple, “this is what happened in our world today” would suffice, then people could actually form their own opinions and own them. I think most of us on either side of the spectrum and everywhere in the middle when it boils down to it, really want the same basic things. We want to be seen as real people with real lives and real concerns who want real solutions.

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    Soozcat
    August 10, 2012 at 2:04 am

    Very well stated, Maggie.

    I can’t help but think that the rise of the Internet has hastened the cheapening and coarsening of politics. When I was younger I was perfectly happy to discuss just about any political subject with anyone, regardless of his or her ideology, as long as the discussion stayed friendly and civil. But political civility seems to be teetering on the edge of extinction. Internet-style anonymity encourages people to shriek and sling mud, rather than attempting to show thoughtfulness and respect for “the other side.” And it’s sad, because I think if we could return to civility, we’d be able to do so much more. If we could find a way to bring together the people who come up with fantastic ideas and the people who are good at figuring out the best way to make those ideas reality, rather than setting them at each others’ throats, what couldn’t we do?

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Maggie Stiefvater
Hi, I'm Maggie Stiefvater

Professional novelist by day and artist by night. I live an eccentric life in the middle of nowhere, Virginia with my charmingly straight-laced husband, two kids, and neurotic dogs. I'm the author of the Books of Faerie (LAMENT and BALLAD); the bestselling SHIVER trilogy (SHIVER, LINGER, FOREVER), and THE SCORPIO RACES.

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